The Uniqueness of a family (22204155)

 Introduction: 

The strange, unique, amazing, and individual nature of families suddenly impressed me. We are all aware of our individuality.  I desire to believe that every person we interact with enjoys a certain component of the blueprint that God used to create each of us. I believe and have trust in this because of His character traits, which consist of love, patience, kindness, and fairness. 

                                              

Distinctness of each family:

Consider your family at this point. Each member is distinct, making your family a singular group of people that is unlike any other on the planet right now or ever. The exciting thing is that, until we start spending time with other people, we tend to think of our family as expected, with all of its peculiarities and technology. Moreover, when we marry, we discover that what we thought was foreign to someone from another unfamiliar family with all of their "Standard" eccentricities.

Hosting a family activity:

I just hosted a program for ‘‘Durga Puja’’ in our village for 32 families, and every participant was exceptional. To deal with their specificity, I divided them into  different groups in my head:                                                       

• Anyone who has kids under the age of 6.

• People with two or more kiddos I had already met and who had arrived with elders.

Fortunately, during the time I spent meeting and talking with them, I gained information about their creativity, the activities they enjoyed, and how much impact each of them had on their families. I also learned how they engaged with one another and God.

How a family changed:

The distinctiveness of a family is not fixed. We are continually involved! I encouraged the families on this occasion to add dates of birth to find out how old their family was. Afterwards, I told them to think about who has a birthday in the following months and then add up their ages after those birthdays. This simple practice reminds us of how frequently our families change. Indeed, it's not just age that varies, but talents too. While kids are small, these changes happen quickly and frequently, and they are capable of changing from month to month. Things happen in spurts as they grow older, and even as adults, we frequently learn new abilities and competence, even if we don't have a degree! While our development brings on some changes are brought on by our development, others, like a change in the school year or a change in work or function, are the consequence of outside factors. Every family I encountered was in a different stage of life.

 My family struggle:

Several families were in the ''young stage'', where life revolved more around providing fundamental necessities, while others were in the ''teenage stage, ''when their children's ideas and freedom were important. 

Others had older teenagers who were becoming more self-sufficient. The first problem of seasonally appropriate weather followed. My family used to be joyful. But suddenly, everything changed. My father left us. He cheated on my mother and married another woman. It was very stressful because all these things happened during my SSC examination and affected my result. I tried to commit suicide, but my friend helped me recover this time. Then, sometimes, I became a strong person, and now things have changed. I and my mother stay together, trying our best to become successful in our lives and forget the past. It may not be simple to identify the season our family is in, but asking what the dominating emotions are as well as what the common joys and sorrows are can help us determine where we are in our shared life journey.

Sharing my thoughts with them and doing some activities:

This implies that at the moment I met these families, the resources they required to develop their regions together were unique to them and to this period. I encouraged them to accept the shift and explore solutions that work for their family today, recognizing that they might not work in the future. We need to let go of the notion that there is a set list of what Families Do For Faith At Home Together and recognize that the list is as long and varied as the families themselves and the seasons they experience. We can acquire ideas from one another. I love hearing what

other people do, but I use those ideas as a bank to supplement what we do as needed. As parents, we constantly adapt and modify our approach to ensure our children's needs are met. What may work well one week may require adjustments, expansion, or a complete overhaul the next. We take great care to provide our children with clothing that fits, toys that align with their developmental stage, and books that are appropriate for their age and abilities from the moment they are born. The same goes for their spiritual development. As a creative person, I'm sometimes tempted to try too many things without repeating enough, while repetition is often a good approach to establishing a routine and culture around spiritual practice. Perhaps you are the opposite, and you cling to a ''good thought'' for far longer than it is truly assisting people in connecting with God.

My suggestion for a family which will work best for them:

 Every family must choose their best strategy and be willing to use willpower to accomplish their objectives. Take into account the following suggestions as you decide what is ideal for your family:

• Consider what you enjoy doing together.

• Consult with others.

• Pray using methods that you love speaking with.

• Look for methods to collaborate on outreach.

• Experiment with new stuff.  

• Work out for something for the specific season you are in.

Lastly, I want to say, Consider your family today, and don't let the stresses of modern life keep you from expressing how much you love and appreciate them.

Authors Bio:

EASHA MONI HRIDI 

Easha Moni Hridi, a 20-year-old from Dhaka, Bangladesh, is a talented writer and singer. She is currently pursuing a BBA degree at BRAC University while dedicating her free time to nurturing her passion for singing. Her blog reflects her love for family and creativity.